Billy Graham’s Wife’s Grave Stone Tells a Chinese Story that Few Know About

The Billy Graham Library is the number one destination in Charlotte, North Carolina. Almost a quarter of a million people visit the library every year and go on the ‘faith tour’ to journey through the history of one of the most influential Christian voices of the 20th century.

Many visitors are perplexed when they visit the grave site of Billy Graham, who is buried next to his wife Ruth (picture taken from Franklin Graham’s social media page).  Above Billy’s name on the grave is a cross, but above Ruth’s name on her grave is a Chinese character. Few people know the story behind that character, but it is in fact one of the most treasured Chinese characters for Christians in China.

Billy Graham’s wife, Ruth Bell, was born in Jiansu, China, to Chinese missionaries during a time when China was extremely poor. Her mother and father were well known medical missionaries and served in China for more than 25 years. Ruth grew up there and developed a passion for the nation of China. She had a deep vision of one day serving as a missionary in Tibet.

At the age of 13, she was sent to North Korea to attend secondary school in Pyongyang. Most believers don’t know that Pyongyang, the current capital city of North Korea, used to have so many missionaries and Christian believers that it was often referred to as the “Jerusalem of the East.” After Ruth Bell graduated high school, she was sent to the United States for university, but not before making it known that she wanted to return again as a missionary.

The Second World War, and eventually the Communist revolution, kept Ruth and her parents from ever living in China again, but from her grave stone it is evident that she kept the Chinese people in her heart until the very end of her life.

On her grave stone is the Chinese character for righteousness (). It is a very special Chinese character that carries the entire Christian message in it. The Chinese character for righteousness, “yi” (), tells a special story because it is made up of two characters – lamb () + me (). The ‘lamb’ is on top and the character for ‘me’ is underneath, so the Chinese message of the story in this simple Chinese character is that a lamb over me equals righteousness!

Ruth, with her grave stone, shares this message of righteousness with hundreds of thousands of people every year. Many westerners might not understand the connection right away, but any Chinese visitors to the Billy Graham Library will right away understand the significance of this character.

It is a beautiful testimony of Ruth’s heart for the nation of China and the Chinese people, who her family served so diligently.

If you would like to read about Ruth’s family experience in China, a special book, Foreign Devil In China, can be purchased by clicking here.

Dr. Eugene Bach is a known trouble-maker with an active imagination and sinful past. He has a PhD, but is not a real doctor, so please do not call for him during a medical emergency on an airplane when someone is having a heart attack. Eugene started working for Back to Jerusalem in the year 2000 after a backroom deal involving Chinese spies, the NRA, Swiss bankers, and a small group of Apostolic Christians that only baptize in Jesus’ name. He spends most of his time in closed countries attempting to topple governments by proclaiming the name of Jesus and not taking showers. From time-to-time he pretends to be a writer. He is not good at it, but everyone around him tries to humor him.


  1. Betschel Karin

    “End of the construction, thank you for your patience”
    You can read at her stone. While travelling in China she found this sign at the end of a road and she said: “This need to be at my stone!!”

    1. Kim

      Regarding Eugene Bach, scripture Acts 4:12 neither is their salvation in any other for there is none other name under heaven given among men whereby we must be saved. Pay attention to the (Must, If, But) as you are reading, do not stop reading a scripture to twist what God is saying through Peter, he was given all authority!


    We visited this week it was wonderful. Restored my soul. Lord let be be a witness for you in everything I I do. Praise God he could use a farm boy I’m sure he can use me.


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